As you get older and enter the world of adulthood, you begin notice that your friends are getting married. Next thing you know- the babies are popping out. The parties where you and all your buddies once had begin to fizzle. Now, whenever you find the time to get together there are children running all over the place. This is part of growing up….
What if you’re one of the few that didn’t get married or have kids? Or even better you’re single. Single and still searching for someone to to be with. This is all fine if you’re okay with it and some people enjoy the freedom. But the people around you may see things a little different. They begin to wonder why you haven’t settled down. Are you being too picky? Is there something wrong with you?
Sometimes that person can’t help being single. It’s just how things turned out for them. They may in the end find someone, but they shouldn’t be placed in the spotlight for everyone to analyze. Please don’t interrogate them or make them feel out of place. It’s hard for some people as it could make them feel lonely or out of place. It really sucks. So if you know someone in this position, please don’t put them under the microscope.